All women should feel this...

"Remind me to thank your mom again for not circumcising you... all women should feel this!"

The creator of this meme remains unknown, but there is powerful cultural mind-change that occurs when we start sharing the real BENEFITS that come to adults - men and their partners - when the body is kept the way it is meant to be for a lifetime. Everyone deserves to experience sexual pleasure in the way they were designed to experience it -- with fully intact genitals for themselves and their partner(s).

Selection of Related Reading:

Male genital cutting and women's sexual health: DrMomma.org/2009/07/how-male-circumcision-impacts-women.html

How Male Circumcision Impacts Your Love Life: DrMomma.org/2009/10/how-male-circumcision-impacts-your-love.html

Hello Orgasm! How foreskin restoration made sex better: SavingSons.org/2013/02/hello-orgasm-how-foreskin-restoration.html

Penis 101: How circumcision changes form and function: DrMomma.org/2009/10/change-in-how-intercourse-works.html


A Father's Regret

By Ryan B.


I am full of regret.

I am a father, and I allowed my son to go through the same trauma I experienced.

I had a natural and loving hesitation -- I asked the doctor, "Does it have to be done?"

His answer should have been, "NO!"

Instead it was an explanation of how it was "simple, painless, and healthy."

I consented, and I saw the raw, bleeding, open wound on my son.

He had adhesions for many years that would tear, bleed, and become infected. He almost constantly had pain, discomfort, and infections...

Please, research the benefits of keeping your children intact and don't risk walking down this road we were forced to travel.



MORE MEN SPEAK

SOS MEN'S GROUP

Further stories from parents who are Keeping Future Sons Intact:
DrMomma.org/2010/05/i-circumcised-my-son-healing-from.html





Why Me?

By J.N.B. © 2018 



Why me?

Why was I one to be strapped to this board, against my will, fighting, struggling to get away.

Why was I one, unable to defend myself, to be subjected to that fierce horror of the blade.

Why am I one who never got to experience all that I was meant to experience -- never to feel in a way I was meant to feel.

Why am I one who must live with the consequences of another's action upon my body.

Why am I one who battles the knowing, and the unknown, all at once.

Why am I one told to let it go. To man up. Told it doesn't matter.

Why this board.

Why this way.

Why me?


-JNB




More Men Speak

Healthy Newborn Baby's Life at Risk Post Circumcision Blood Loss

Author's name removed for the sake of family's privacy. Shared with permission.



Almost 4 years ago we went through the most horrifying day.

We took our son to have him circumcised. As they took him back, we were told we had to wait in the waiting room. We waited for what seemed forever... Finally, they brought him out, wrapped in his blanket. We put him in his car seat, and headed home.

Upon getting home and proceeding to take him out of his car seat, we noticed the car seat had blood all over the bottom, and all over his blanket. Immediately, we got him out to look, only to find blood coming out of his diaper, all over his legs. We removed his diaper, and he was full of blood, with continuous bleeding from his penis.

We hurried in a panic to put another diaper on him, and jumped back into the vehicle to head to another hospital.

They immediately took him back.

The doctor entered in to find that a blood [vein] had been cut during circumcision. By this time he has went through 3 diapers of blood, and was running a 101 degree fever, and he was not very alert. The doctor tried 5 times before finally getting the blood [vein] to clot and quit bleeding, only then to notice the circumcision wasn't even 'complete' or done properly.

He called the other hospital and demanded they have someone come look at what had been done at their facility. My son ended up needing the circumcision completed and three stitches on the top of his penis to fix what was 'botched.'

I will never forget the doctor telling the other doctor from the hospital where my son was circumcised, "Whoever did this, botched this baby..." I was so angry, upset and confused. Still to this day nobody had to pay for the responsibilities of what happened to my son, and he is forever scarred on his penis.

Please consider this when making a decision. The diaper photo on the right above was after they got the bleeding almost to a stopping point.

Daily we struggle with wonder about whether this will cause him insecurity, or if he will have trouble with erections later in life...


Veins and arteries most at risk of being severed during infant circumcision. A newborn baby only needs to lose 1 ounce of blood to hemorrhage, and 2.3 ounces of blood to die. This is not a risk most parents today wish to take. There are no risks in keeping babies intact. 


Related Reading:

Keeping Future Sons Intact

Stories from Regret Parents

Death from Circumcision

Healthy Newborn Dies Post-Circumcision Hemorrhage 

CircumcisionRisks.org/research







Support Saving Our Sons



Thank you for your gift to Saving Our Sons. Saving Our Sons carefully assesses the impact of every single dollar spent, to ensure gifts are used in the most wise way possible. By doing so we are able to make the most effective use of any donation for the sake of babies and future men saved!

Your donation will be put to immediate, real-life, baby-saving use in one of the following ways: 

*Maternity, Baby, and Family Expo Registration and Materials, freely given to thousands of expecting and new families (Saving Our Sons has on-the-gound intact chapters in every U.S. state, Canada, Australia, the U.K, Africa, South Korea, and Puerto Rico). We register for and attend as many maternity, baby and family expos as we are able to raise funding for. This impact is thee most significant way to change the greatest number of new parents hearts/minds who would otherwise never receive the intact message. Expositions play a vital role in saving babies from genital cutting, and ensuring tomorrow's men remain intact, and the need for SOS expos is great. Example: the cost of one temporary billboard ($4-8K) would cover between 40-60 full maternity and baby expos, where SOS volunteers meet one-on-one with thousands of expecting mothers. This is by and large the most impacting steps we can take. 

*Intact Info Packs, books, DVDs, intact care items, materials sent to those who've requested but cannot otherwise access them (or those who've had a relative/friend request items be sent). Most pressing are the needs for reaching families whose babies are in the NICU and remain intact, but undecided about circumcision. Our materials are quality and proven - they do change minds and hearts for those who go through them. 

*SOS Odyssey Rallies and the Intact Traveling Billboards! We reach many thousands of people with each stop along the SOS Odyssey, and the Traveling Billboards are impossible to miss. For these to happen in your area, we only need funding for gas and lodging for hosts. In most cases, $1K covers 6-8 large cities, with over 200,000+ seeing the intact message - often for their first time! SOS Odyssey FB page. To give directly toward the Traveling Billboards, and tell us you'd like the Odyssey to come to your state, please note your city/state: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=QR8NM445648R2 The advantage of the SOS Odyssey and traveling billboards over a temporary, stationary billboard is that it is not ignored, is seen by thousands for a fraction of the cost, and is delivered in a pro-intact manner that we've found opens minds/hearts and evokes positive, powerful change. 

*Awareness raising rallies for genital autonomy. Saving Our Sons hosts respectful pro-autonomy rallies and info tables in front of major conventions (AAP, CDC, ACOG, International AIDS Conference, College of Nurse-Midwives) and in large cities and high traffic areas (Men's Health Week, Genital Integrity Awareness Week, The Grand Intact Stand). During these rallies we take a professional, educational approach to awareness raising and pass out hundreds of informational items each day, having countless one-on-one constructive and respectful conversations with passerbys and conference attendees. The ripple effect is great! Physicians are people too, and most have a vested interest in the wellbeing of their patients, and their personal, ethical practice. 

*Prevention Care and Don't Retract Packs for physicians. Between SOS, The Intact Network's State Chapters, and Peaceful Parenting, we receive approximately 15 reports each week of physicians or clinical staff who are forcibly retracting children, or encouraging parents to do so with their baby. These packs are put together by clinicians volunteering with SOS and the Medical Professionals for Genital Autonomy, and they are well received - often making a real change in patient protocol. We also send Prevention Care packs to physicians when a new family is going to start using their care services, so that they are well informed on intact care and normal development ahead of time. We would like to ship regardless of a family's ability to cover the $4 cost, but need people to come on board and support this effort. Also at Etsy.

*Continuation of the SavingSons.org, IntactNetwork.org, and DrMomma.org websites and the re-direction of circumcision domains back to pro-intact material. Continuing the compelling content that comes from Saving Our SonsThe Intact Network, Peaceful Parenting, and all the Intact Chapters (Intact Texas, Intact Michigan, Intact Virginia, Intact Connecticut, etc.) - regularly reaching an audience of over 350,000+ individuals, and providing advocates with gentle, research-based resources they can be confident in sharing with friends, family, clients and patients. 

By giving to Saving Our Sons, you are ensuring that every dollar goes directly into saving a baby from genital cutting. We change the cultural mindset about the intact male body and foreskin to be one that is positive and productive, and empower forward momentum as we become an INTACT nation again! 

Thank you for being an important part of this SOS mission.
Meet some of the little ones saved by SOS here.

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Saving Our Sons
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To give without PayPal taking a percentage:

1) Go to PayPal.com
2) Click "Send Money" and "To Friends/Family"
3) Enter SavingSons@gmail.com and the amount you wish to give.

Sponsor a Son
The following expecting families are those in need of a sponsor. If you would like to provide materials  for a particular family on this list, please include a note with your gift of $18 or more, or email SavingSons@gmail.com We connect these families to a local educator and ensure they receive materials in hands (usually this is in the form of a book, info pack, DVD, and small supplies for their new baby - a welcoming gift packed with intact information)

K-- first boy, MI (requested by younger sibling who found SOS on FB)

S-- OH family, requested by mom (who would like to share with expecting sister as well)

M-- second son, requested by father to convince fiancé, Oregon

A-- first baby, TN

*Note: NICU babies who have been born, with parents still deciding take precedence as they are closest to being cut. We try to get materials to their parents first.

Saving Our Sons' Intact Chapters
The Intact Network's Chapters use donated funds to register and host intact booths at maternity and baby expos, meeting with thousands of expecting families in the process.  Chapters operate by local volunteers with a heart for babies and donations to Saving Our Sons.

Intact Minnesota - Twin Cities Birth & Babies Expo - $74 remaining need (Updated 4.10.18) | Support MN

Intact North Carolina at NC Pride Intact Booth (Duke University Campus) - $85 remaining need for registration/materials (Updated: 4.10.18) | Support NC

Intact Oklahoma - Tulsa Baby Expo - $105 remaining need (Update: 4.10.18) | Support OK

Intact Idaho - BabyPalooza - $75 remaining need (Update: 4.10.18) | Support Idaho

Intact Virginia - Celebrating Children Festival, Hampton Roads Pride; MommyCon DC; Chesapeake New Baby Expo - $500 remaining need (Update: 4.10.18) | Support Virginia

Intact Kenya (SOS Kenya & Africa Chapters) - $63 remaining need for distribution of intact materials in Kenya - specifically being shared via Intact Kenya at local clinics and neighborhoods where circumcision is pushed on young men (Update: 4.10.18) | Support Africa / Kenya

American Academy of Family Physicians Annual Conference / Rally for Genital Autonomy; $50 for materials remains (Update: 4.10.18) | Support the AAFP Rally for Genital Autonomy


Upcoming Events

SOS Odyssey: Traveling Rallies - Details & Support (Next Odyssey: May 2018)

Genital Integrity Awareness Week - Washington D.C.  (Annual week-long March Event) | Support GIAW | GenitalIntegrityAwarenessWeek.com 

Worldwide Week of Genital Autonomy - Washington D.C. 2018 (Annual May Event) | Support WWWGA / WorldWideWeekofGenitalAutonomy.org [This past ACOG and WWWGA took us over budget with a remaining balance of $390 to pay off.  Updated: 4.10.18)] 

Men's Health Week - Washington D.C. 2018 (Annual week-long June event) | Support Men's Health Week 



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